Thursday, 19 July 2018

"A successful marriage is not cheap"- Seun Oladele

Motivational speaker, Blogger and Relatioship coach, Seun Oladele had this to say, Read her piece below...

The challenge I have with today's teens is no sense of direction, their purposelessness, visionlessness and carelessness. You don't date because you want to have fun, experiment sex and hangout, you go into courtship because you have a vision and you need someone help you fulfil your vision. What is your vision in life? What do you want to become?

A successful marriage is not cheap! It requires a high level of discipline and maturity which most teenagers today don't have. Most are still being spoon fed by dad and mummy. You can't even write your WAEC without the help of special centers. You can't do anything sensible without being monitored. You lack control over your mouth and sex organs. Once you have a urge, you must masturbate and watch porn. You don't know John 3:16 talk less of turning open the pages of the Bible and you want to marry, to do what? Look into each other's eye balls? You are seriously joking! Look, marriage is more than, "I love you, I love you". It involves the change of diapers, cooking and sweating in the kitchen, screaming out the name of your toddler, jumping out at 5am seeking your daily bread, paying rent and bills, handling conflicts, pressures and challenges of life which hits everyone, everyone! Emotion is unstable, it fizzles at the face if challenges, you need stability of character and all round maturity: spiritual, physical, financial, economical, psychological, emotional to weather the storms that often hit marriages whether you like it or not.

Source: Seun Oladele
Photo credit: Teens picture

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